最好的生日礼物是历史没有重演
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生日前夕外子说他很不舒服,感觉就像2022年我生日前夕那样。脑后勺感觉一阵冰凉,我特意回避不去想2022年的生日,怎么又再重复?全身乏力的他躺在小房间休息,媳妇来带孙子回家时我下楼开门,看到饭桌上有个大纸箱。心里知道那是什么但心思全在外子身上。他说感觉在发烧,临睡前吞两颗退烧药。那一夜我既担心又害怕,整夜祈求别让历史重演。不断探热,感觉没那么烧。我怀疑他蹲着油漆墙壁,用了平时不常用的肌肉产生乳酸导致酸痛。他说不是,运动过后的酸痛不一样。
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清晨醒来情况依然没有好转,问他可要入院,又是一堆理由。警告他别又为了给我庆祝生日延迟就医,生日比不上生命来得重要。辛亏过了数小时不再发烧,疼痛也逐渐消失。他这时醒起小时候在学校被老师罚鸭子走路,回去病了几天。蹲着油漆墙壁跟鸭子走路大同小异,加上天气炎热,曝晒在外所以身体不舒服。
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吃早餐后确定没事,这才放下心头大石。他叫我拆礼物,想看送来的东西可合我意?还有张生日卡,不是说卡片已不再推出?哦!原来只是买不到情人节卡片,生日卡勉强还是找得到的只是那是很久的存货,原本有生日音乐却不作响。
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小心翼翼打开盒子,是玻璃茶壶,泡花茶用的,还有竹托盘、双层小茶杯、茶壶保温炉和一片竹垫。问我什么都说不要,既然不说那就买他想买的。十分满意这礼物,木制的茶壶手柄最合我意。拆礼物的过程他在旁仔细观看我脸部变化,肯定我喜欢后松了一口气。就像他说我什么都有了,买礼物不是一件简单的事。以行动表示欢喜,即冲一壶玫瑰花茶,俩人好好品尝。
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中午十分看他不再病恹恹,确定是乳酸作祟后才敢出外用餐,否则五花大绑也要绑到医院去。远方的老二一听到老爸说不舒服,不断催我送他入院,不要再拖。当年就是拖差点小命不保,辛亏老幺把他带去验血,带着验血报告得以直闯急诊室,争取到急救的黄金时刻。
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找一间咖啡座,对西餐有选择性困难的我除了辣辣的海鲜意面不作他想以免踩雷。点了一个很像蛋糕的可颂,内馅是香兰椰浆奶油,蛮不错的。拉花咖啡原本完美无缺,被我不小心划到,并非拉花师傅的错。赶紧拍老爸用餐的照片给孩子们看,消除他们心中的疑虑与担忧。离家的孩子最担心的是远在家乡的父母,就像父母担心他们一样。老二常常报喜不报忧,就是怕妈妈心脏负荷不了。
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最好的生日礼物是2022年的历史没有重演,我胃口大开地吃,还把魔爪伸到外子的盘里。我一忧心就全无食欲,只有心情好才吃得多。这份甜品大部分都是我吃,证明今日的快乐指数很高。
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夜晚儿子打电话来叫老爸载妈妈去餐馆,他和姐姐已经打点一切,一家人吃顿饭。女儿买夏威夷乳酪蛋糕给我庆生,不想扫孩子的兴,点蜡烛有个仪式就好,别唱生日歌。生我的人刚离去不到一周年,今天是母难日,我只想低调度过。孩子们都很配合,大家安静地吃饭。
一家人一起吃饭,平安健康就是最好的生日礼物。当你几乎失去另一半又失而复得,那就是天大的恩赐,我怎敢还有奢求?生我的母亲刚离世,生日做布施,再把功德回向父母,这是我能做的。
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